On one hand creating an ultimatum for your partner rarely motivates romance. Others are in the same boat. Maybe you two should have a serious discussion about where you would like the relationship to go and then leave it alone. Sometimes the desire to get engaged drives women to think and do things that their more rational side would dismiss. If you are prone to feel anxiety during ambiguous situations, it might just be that feeling getting the best of you.
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When dating, how long do you wait for the ring?
He promised end of I think its time for a serious discussion where you tell him that you are already questionning his intentions and his feelings for you. We had been trying to move in together for a few years prior. Another option is to accept the relationship the way it is now, and let go of the idea of engagement completely. It never happened. I love Belinichics suggestion.